Memoir
/ˈmemˌwär/ noun. a record of events written by a person having intimate knowledge of them and based on personal observation. Usually memoirs. an account of one's personal life and experiences; autobiography. the published record of the proceedings of a group or organization, as of a learned society.
Week 34 of Memoir Monday is right here on our doorstep. What things are you proudest of in your life? This week’s prompt was simple for me because, in my profession, I’ve had plenty of time to think about it. I like having a loose plan for things, not a strict script to follow but a framework of personal rules and I’ve lived the past few decades of my life this way.
Memoir Monday has grown so much that I won’t be able to comment on everyone’s posts anymore (and get my own work done) but I’ll still be supporting your posts with reblogs, votes, and shares on my other social media accounts (X, Facebook, etc.).
For all of those who’ve regularly participated in Memoir Monday - keep going, you’re making great progress in chronicling your very own life story for future generations to enjoy.
For those who missed the inaugural post explaining what the Memoir Monday initiative is all about you can find it here.
Now for next week’s Memoir Monday prompt:
What things are you proudest of in your life?
My answer:
I’d say the things I’m most proud of in my life so far are:
I've always made a conscious effort to bring more light into the world than darkness, both through my work, my words, and my actions. That’s not to say I’ve lived a perfect life or never made mistakes, but when I have, I’ve tried to make amends, learn from the experience, and do better moving forward;
I’ve achieved my personal definition of success, and I’m grateful to have done so on my own terms. Luck played a big part, but throughout my journey, I’ve stayed true to myself without compromising my morals or values. Success feels so much sweeter when you can enjoy it with a clear conscience; and
My mom always says my favorite words as a very young boy were always, "Why?" and "What If…?". That has never changed. I've always been deeply curious and if that curiosity is stifled in any way I find myself becoming depressed. As a result of this I’ve never stopped learning and evolving. My curiosity about both my inner and outer world drives me, and I can’t imagine a day where I’m not excited to discover or experience something new.
Tread Lightly, Love Deeply....this is the mantra that I follow and have included in the front matter of several of my books. This sums up how I try to live my life.