I'll start with this: "Life without Charming words is like being in a garden that has no flowers and putting words together to create a feeling that lifts up our reality makes our life worth living.
I have critically studied several relationships and gotten some results (the winning formula) to why young people "swipe left in hopes" of finding the right partner.
Most times due to capture of beauty, most men go into a sudden rush.
Critical analysis have proven that MEN take only 8.2 seconds to fall in Love. Now the rush will trigger a signal to the Lady's mind to stay clear.
So my formula #1 says, Do not rush so as not to slip and fall....
Now for a lasting relationship to occur, do not put all your mind at the initial stage but be committed and mean business. Try seeing your partner as your blood relation with this, the golden rule will set in. With this, you won't be tired of seeing your partner because she is like a blood relation to you.
So my rule #2 says, Take him/her as your blood.
NOW CODE THESE STRATEGIES
NEVER FORGO ANY CHANCE OF ACHIEVING REAL CONNECTION IN A RELATIONSHIP BY MUTUALLY PLAYING GAMES WITH NO WINNER.
NEVER YOU WANT THE FACADE OF A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT THE WORK OF A RELATIONSHIP.
RELATIONSHIPS CRASH MOST TIMES BECAUSE YOU WANT THAT HAND HOLDING WITHOUT THE EYE CONTACT.
PARTNERS WANT THE PRETTY PROMISE WITHOUT THE ACTUAL COMMITMENT IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.
I sat down to analyse and brought forth the winning formula because testimonies abound with the application of these formulas.
Now, talking about relationships, it needs rooted connections to make it work. Making it shallow tears it apart. Most partners initiate the mind of players. They keep chasing Love but don't actually want to fall into it. They end up becoming friends with benefit instead of exercising pure relationship.
Importantly, for a lasting relationship to take a stand, do not ever keep your partners at arms length toying with their emotions.
While going through this analysis, I saw that when things get too close to becoming real, partners run, they hide and finally they leave. They say to themselves "there is more fish in the ocean".
Finally, I will summarize by saying that what we need to recognise is that the things we truly want, the things that are deeply meaningful, the things that are genuinely fulfilling all require 'WORK, ENERGY & PATIENCE. (WEP).
THIS IS HEREBY THE WINNING FORMULA-: WORK FOR IT, PUT IN YOUR ENERGY AND BE PATIENT ABOUT IT......
THANKS SO MUCH FOR ENJOYING THIS PIECE FROM ME.
produced by @padosky