"Now I realize, that alone is the best status before marriage. The purity of the self, the sincerity of love, and the magnitude of the sacrifice, only for those who have been justified for us. So before marriage we have to be patient in solitude. We solidify the time to excel. No need to worry about our mate. If we are qualified. A quality matchmate will be presented to us, "(Ahmad Rifa'i Rif'an).
The issue will not be solved only with us saying, "God, I love him." So, what is the proof that the feeling is love for God? Yes, a struggle. A struggle to build love that we will do after the sense of love is present. Love should not force itself to forget, but love also must not force yourself to have. Feelings of love must be managed so that love can grow or contract properly. Self-immolation is a way to love in silence.
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