Where your heart lies is where the home will be. Is it too much to digest? Well its simple to understand, that what is most comfortable for one , may not be the most comfortable for others , and one may be so comfortable and you like to call it "home"No doubt there are house rules, but one has to keep to its minimum that one may not be stifled.
Usually one may be most comfortable in a close friend's or an aunt's house . compared to one's own. It is not the house and how it's arranged, its the people in it too. One feel love and contentment in that house and will not be stifled, one tends to treat it like home.It's the ego, the lack of warmth and most important it's the non judgmental character of this person
.One calls it love , for humankind and is not prejudiced, and
without malice . It is the character and attitude of many people living under one roof. Even if you are independent and want to be on ones own , its one attitude which decides the compatibility .