You become the people you spend the most time with. Whether those people are physical and alive (in person); or digital and dead (in books, courses, etc.).
If you want success, you need to surround yourself with successful people, or leave that space open for successful people to come in.
The reason I use a lot of relationship examples throughout this blog is because relationships have the biggest impact in our lives. They can bring us a lot of happiness, but they can also ruin our lives if we’re not careful.
It is always better to be alone than to be surrounded with the wrong people.
And so, to find the right people you should first know what you’re looking for; describe what you’re looking for in a partner, a friend, family, and so on.
Once you know what it is that you’re looking for, you should then reflect on your current relationships, and you should also play an active role in forming new relationships; actively going out of your way to meet new people. An easy way to break the ice when meeting new people is to assume you already know them.
Finally, to be able to connect with the right people you need to be yourself. Otherwise, you won’t be able to connect with them or they might miss you.
Always surround yourself with the right people and help them to succeed, because who they become will greatly impact who you become.
“The key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best.” ― Epictetus
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