Hi Steemians!
This is my 4th blog and i am starting to enjoy steemit a lot.I have read great posts lately and got inspired to write more.
So this post is about something that we all face at some point of our lives.It is a question that has been in my mind a lot recently.And the question is
WHO IS MY FRIEND?
I thought that i had a lot of friends, very good ones actually.Maturity,Experience or whatever it is, has taught me recently that I WAS WRONG!
What i learnt is that i was the stupid one.I was just an acquaintance.My prescence was noticed but my abscence was not noticed by most of them.I think many of us have a similar experience. Especially,if you are an intovert then it is hard to find friends. I tried a lot but mostly i got ignorance
MY EXPERIMENTS TO FIND THE REAL ONES:
When I realized the fact,i decided to conduct an experiment.
First of all i started reducing contact with all of them.I started to stay offline most of the times,didnt call or meet them
Secondly,whenever we were in a group sometimes i started to give a suggestion or opinion.
I started talking with people who were not close to me.I started to spend more time with new people.
RESULTS
So,my experiment was over and i waited for some weeks and finally i got my results
Most of them didnt notice my abscence as always.It didnt matter to them anyway.
My opinions were looked over by most of them.My suggesstions were not taken.
WHY MY EXPERIMENT WAS SUCCESSFULL??
My experiment turned out to be a great succes for me.The reasons are
• I was able to find out people to whom i was important
•Though my friends were few, i started to spend quality time with them.
• My opinions mattered so my confidence boosted up.
• Some of the new people i talked turned out to be great.
•And finally I got a best friend who will remain a best friend for the rest of my life.
So i summarize by saying that life gave me a great lesson about Friendship.Though it was hard but it turned out to be positive for me.
So if you feel the same at any point of your life use the experiment.It worked for me.It may work for you too.
If you ever feel that you are trying too hard to prove yourself in front of your friends its time you should think about this lesson'
"IF YOU ARE NOT IMPORTANT TO THEM, THEY ARE NOT IMPORTANT TO YOU"
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@satyamsharma