Not to be sad because not married, but sad because the departure of friends who are married. They will be busy with their new life, and I'm still here with the same life.
The arms friends who usually ask news, take to the streets, through the joy and sorrow together. One by one they have found a soul mate. I'm not sad, I'm happy, happy, finally they can fulfill religion.
"The soul mate is like death; no one can guess, can not dimajuin or dimundurin time ". After marriage just feel "it is the right time" and everyone is different time. Cause everyone has their own story.
Remembering Mario Teguh's words about a mate,
"A person's mate is not just one, but a lot."
What does it mean? Apparently every human being will get his life partner in accordance with the levels that exist in him. If it turns out to be A's qualities, then he is only eligible to get a partner whose quality is also A, but if he improves the quality of self into B, then he will get a partner with a quality B.
And so on, until finally at the appointed time, he will be reunited with his life partner in accordance with the quality of himself at the time.
We will be met with a good match if we are looking for good. Logically, we will be interested in the person who makes us feel comfortable.
Comfort that usually arise one of the connecting communication. This is generally created in relation to equality or sekufu.
This equality is related to harmony, harmonious in communication, and about the similarity of views. Thus we can communicate well and then work together to build a family.
The past of a person can be a consideration as well. If his past is bad we have to make sure he's changed. It takes time to make sure it is due to change takes time and effort.
To get a good mate, at least two of these efforts we can do as a first step.
- Being in the right community.
We will not find a good partner if we look for it in nightclubs. So if we want to really find a good partner we are looking for in a community close to worship.
- Establish ourselves in accordance with the mate we want.
Whether we realize it or not, our soul mate is a reflection of ourselves. So our form of self must be worth it what we seek.
Even if we are still waiting for a soul mate, then we see our brothers and sisters who are much more waiting for a mate but until now still have not come also the match awaited.
Even if we ever fail to go through the process at the beginning of an arranged marriage, then there are among our brothers and sisters who fail at the door of marriage.
If it turns out we are among those who feel the bitterness of failure on the doorstep of marriage, then do not we still feel how many other good doors for ourselves? Be assured that the mate came at the right time, the right time and the right conditions.