Congratulations on the courage to tell your story. And on embracing your circumstances so you can find the light.
Surrounding yourself with inspiring stories of others who have thrived amidst their trauma can help you to do the same. I encourage you to learn from Jon Morrow's incredibly inspiring story and JJ Virgin's son's climb back from traumatic brain injury.
There are many others. The more you keep them in your heart and mind, the easier it will be for you to develop a similar attitude.
You can be an inspiration to others, too!
All best!
RE: For anyone who doesn't feel comfortable in their own skin—