The truth is that you've always been alone, but you realize that later. Parents go to the other world, our friends become strangers; the beloved person betrays us; the children grow up and you change. What seemed correct yesterday does not work today. Loneliness always comes back, like winter. But maturity means knowing how to be alone, without dramas and self-pity. It is best to prepare yourself for this period.
All people, except those close to us, can be replaced. No one is unique. Let the new people enter your life, even if you do not understand whether or not you have a connection. One day you will understand that you are alone and this will save your life.
Try something new, whether it's food, clothes, movies, books, a different route to work, buying a new phone, a new hobby, or another philosophy / religion. We are lazy and easy to please by nature. The older we go, the more we want to go to the same places, do the same things. The habit of deviating from the usual path disappears. Do not get caught in the same things.
Forgive everyone for what has happened and look for those you can not forgive. Ignoring people and trying to forget them can sometimes be the harshest punishment, but also the best medicine. Do not bother arguing with them, it's not worth it.
Do not rush anything. Everything that happens quickly does not take too long. If you want something, you will eventually receive it. If you finally realize you're not craving a thing, it means you did not really need it. Leave risky decisions for another day. If you are not sure of anything, risk only if you wanted something for a very long time.
If there is anything you want, do not give up. Success comes from experience. The more you try, the closer you get to it. What often seems to be bad or unreasonable manners is actually a sign of experience. Firmness, patience, perseverance, independence in dealing with others are built as you get closer to achieving the desired goal.
Life never ends, even though sometimes it does. All that happens is just a stone fallen in the river - it could disturb the water, but it can not stop the flow. Remember this when you are desperate when you are in mourning; when you read the farewell letter. The day will come when you say "I managed to get over!"
Tomorrow might be your last day on Earth. It sounds tragic, but if you think about it, you can be motivated to do all the things on this list.
Do what you like, but take care of yourself, so the consequences could turn against you. Get used to understanding why your body needs it and what it tells you. If you have not done so before, start with simple things: a walk, swimming or yoga. As a result, the care for you will become your second nature.
Romanticism, love and passion are wonderful things. But if you mix them with sex, you may not experience them for a long time, and that's harmful. Maybe you just want sex. But it always tends to bring love and romance to the bundle.
Do not think what others think about you. For most of the time, people think of their own person. If they think about you, it's just compared to them. As a result, I do not think of you at all.
Beware of certainty. It is the beginning of the decline. You must always doubt that what you are doing is the best thing in life. Make sure you have the option of changing things or trying something else.
You must always keep in touch with your friends. I'm never enough. One day you will understand that you are alone and your friends will come to see you unexpectedly by saying, "Are you crazy? You have us! "And it is true.