There is always an appropriate time for everything. No need to rush. You cannot fully enjoy a fruit when it's not yet ripe. You cannot see the true beauty of a flower until it blossoms. You cannot understand and deal with a strong emotion like love when you aren't mentally and emotionally ready to feel it. You still have to go through and learn a lot of things before you jump into it. It can be constructive or destructive depending on how you use it.
Most teenagers nowadays see love as a way to indulge themselves on their youth. Without really understanding what love truly means, they enter into romantic relationships like joining a war without proper armours and without even knowing what they're fighting for. Some risks their heart because of curiosity and even lust. They end up shattered in the end because they have no idea of what they entered. We have to understand that love is not lust. Love is not something you should experience just because of your curiosity. It requires a lot of maturity so you can handle it well.
At an early age, there's nothing wrong with falling in love. It's inevitable, to be completely honest with you. You would really meet someone who would make you feel special, would make your heart skip a beat and make you feel butterflies on your stomach. That's normal. But how you deal with it will make a lot of difference. It can keep you inspired and motivated to keep on chasing your dreams. On the other hand, it might shatter your bright future. Love is not all about hearts, rainbows and unicorns. Love can be unbearably painful and tough. So, ask yourself: are you truly ready for it at such a young age?
Focus on your studies. Eyes on your goals first. Love can wait. There's no deadline to meet when it comes to having a romantic relationship. Never let love make you discard your common sense. Love is supposed to be beautiful, you can't allow it to destroy your life. Make it an inspiration to succeed but it can't be your first priority at an early age.
Can you remember the first time you fell in love? How did you used it to help you become a better person? How much did it hurt you?
In your own point of view, why do you think love shouldn't be rushed? When is the right time to commit on a romantic relationship?
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