After a breakup, it is natural to try and win an ex back. However, this can be a tricky thing to achieve. Seeming too desperate, needy and begging for his return, is likely to send a man running in the opposite direction.
Therefore, the art of winning back an ex-boyfriend is a delicate one.
How Can Your Make Your Ex Want You Back
The key to getting your ex-boyfriend to return is to make him want to come back. As mentioned above, chasing an ex-lover is precisely the wrong way to do this. Therefore, it is wise to avoid making repeated efforts to contact your ex, especially if alcohol has been consumed (a mistake most people have made at some point in their lives).
The best technique is to play it cool, not aloof, but casual about interactions with your ex-boyfriend. Typically, men are attracted to the unobtainable, so the worst mistake a woman can make is to throw herself at an ex.
Likewise, physical attraction is extremely important. Therefore, when trying to win your ex back, it is advisable to dress to impress. Of course, if there is a hairstyle he favors or dress color he likes, this knowledge of his preferences can all be used to attract him.
If possible, it is a good idea to become friendly with your ex-boyfriend’s friends. It is surprising how influential friends can be in the choice of boyfriends and girlfriends and a woman who gets on well with a man’s friends is bound to be spoken highly of. Naturally, this course of action is not always possible, but it can be extremely effective.
Make Yourself Irresistible to an Ex
As mentioned above, the physical side of attracting your ex back is all important. However, the battle to win back his affections does not end there. The fact is, nothing is more attractive to a man than a self-confident, happy and satisfied woman.
Of course, following a breakup, "happy" is not necessarily the vibe exuded. However, if an air of happiness can be faked for the benefit of your ex-boyfriend and his friends, this might be all that is needed.
Similarly, wallowing in self-pity is not advised, so it can be a good idea to get out and live a little. Get some friends together and go out on the town. This is not only helpful in terms of overcoming the breakup, but it will also ensure that the ex-boyfriend knows his decision to end the relationship has not resulted in a deep, dark depression.
In addition, it is possible that the air of happiness does not need to be faked after all.
Of course, there is no guarantee that these things can bring your ex-boyfriend back. Remember, the breakup of a relationship can be the best thing for both parties (even if it doesn’t seem that way to begin with). Therefore, it is important to begin to move on.
Perhaps this will prompt your ex to realize his mistake and come running back, but equally, maybe there is someone better waiting just around the corner.
Moreover, before taking any action to win back your ex, it is wise to take a little time to consider what went wrong in the relationship and, in fact, whether it is worth trying to salvage at all.
Thanks for reading.
