I have learned that in life never rush to help a person that has not discover his or herself, when people are going through pain or loss allow them to heal before you can assist them.
Don’t rush people. Give them the time and space they need to heal from their hurt. We all deal with trials and tribulations in our own unique ways. Lend an ear, a helping hand, make sure they know you’re there if they need you. That’s the best help you can offer.
Help should be done in the right way not when a person is not ready to receive help.