This is a very good question. @ancapbarbie is actually ancap (no shit) and supportive of LGBT rights.
I've been treated very kindly here, but the rate of tinfoil wearing asshats is too high for me. I'd rather not put my pronouns on my page. I find it unessacary. Just ask for them. If not, I'll correct you.
RE: A question for the LGBT members of Steem, and a request