Yes I'm just a beginner, a newbee, a first timer. But, Love really is not a joke. Everyrime your girl has to be with someone you overthink. Overthinking of things that might come with your relationship. But why? Why does it hurts you so? Is it really Love? Or are you just being so possessive? Or maybe not? Maybe your feelings are just some sort of a signal, that your instincts are right. Maybe its just helping you prepare for the pain that may come. :) Yes Jealousy is bad. Jealousy destroys. Overcome jealousy but you should also think of things that may come :)