Getting married is not a trivial matter, because in a marriage there will be a big responsibility after that when a marriage contract has been held in accordance with the terms and conditions, then that's when a man has taken over a big responsibility of a daughter from his father.
Therefore guiding a wife to the path of Allah is a must, because she will be able to pull her husband back if his wife strays from His way. Even for world affairs, when a man marries a daughter from a father, it means that he really must be able to fight to give him life and mind.
The livelihood that was born, of course, not only gave him money to spend, then we ate together with him, but more than that we must be able to provide all of his needs. We need to think about women's complex needs, from the needs of makeup, clothes, and various other women's needs, including the need to learn.
All major responsibilities of the husband require us to work hard to get the rupiah coffers so that we will be able to meet all the needs of our wives. After marriage, the burden on the wife's parents will decrease and the needs of the wife will be more easily fulfilled, not only do we demand that he reduce the things that are usually fulfilled by his parents.
More than that getting married means also a whip for us to be more enthusiastic in deepening their religious knowledge so that we can direct our families to run through heaven. Is it not clear in the scriptures that God tells us to take care of ourselves and our families from the fires of hell whose fuel comes from jinn and humans, of course only with high religious faith and knowledge we will more easily guard and direct them