First, know thine own ideal - spiritual, mental and material; not as to what you would have others do, but what you would do for others. Smile upon those that are downhearted and sad; lift the load from those that find theirs too heavy to bear, in gentleness, in kindness, in long-suffering, in patience, in mercy and in brotherly love. And as ye show forth these to your fellow man, the ways and the gates of glory will open before you. Thus you may find in your mental and spiritual self, you can make yourself just as happy or just as miserable as you like. How miserable do you want to be?... For you GROW to Heaven, you don't GO to Heaven. It is within thine own conscience that you grow there. ㅤ
SO MOTE IT BE! We have been told this since time immemorial.