At times, you do not hold, you think it is self-respect, but for the person you love is not respectful. Sometimes not being able to see each other can lead to regretful separation.
Do not rely on what you will forever be your own, what is yours then surely you must try to hold on. Keeping is not a lie, but keeping it is not easy to slip out of reach.
Love requires a lot of effort, the endeavor, the reliance is still only failure. The failure of an affair, also based on both the same effort.
"Many times, just hold on to hold a little, is less pain to hurt each other a lot."