True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations: it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the heart. - Honore de Balzac...
What would have become of me without true love? It feels like yesterday when I never believed in something like true love...
Nothing lasts forever is a saying I used to believe in, especially regarding love and relationships. I believe most relationships can only last for a while and not forever before they eventually crumble. These were my thoughts in the past until love found me and my way of thinking changed....
I realized the longevity of every relationship depends on the parties involved, I believe the longevity of every relationship depends on the determination of the involved. Any guy or lady who lacks contentment in a relationship is bound to cheat, take it, or leave it...
I don't know why my gender cannot just stay in one place when it comes to relationships, many people out there believe meeting several wrong partners before finding the right person is a natural phenomenon. This statement is a big lie, meeting several wrong partners before finding our MR OR MISS right is not something we can't control, which means we don't have to keep courting different ladies to find the right person, why don't you calm down, know and understand what you want in your life partner before making a move...
Patience and observation go a long way in finding a good life partner. I have been in this world for quite a while now and from my observations, I have heard and seen childhood sweethearts ending up together as life partners in the future, these people were each other first and last love, there was no dating someone else's before finding each other, if these people can do it, what's stopping you and I from doing it...
I know what works for Taiwo might not work for Kehinde, but the question is have we tried to make it work and it didn't work? Using some of my friends as a case study for this topic...
Most of my male friends have dated at least three girls in the past before finding their current partner. What's amusing is that they don't plan on stopping there; they believe there's still a long journey ahead before they find their so-called "Miss Right"...
One of the main reasons why most of their relationships kept on failing was because of their lack of patience, another reason was the fact that most of them built the foundation of their relationship on the love fror material things and not on genuine love and honesty and honesty, They all want to date the hottest chicks in town, instead of trying to win their hearts genuinely, they result to dubious means and living a fake life, at the end of the day when the truth gets revealed the relationship crumbles...
I know how heartbreak feels and I don't want to ever experience it, I have seen how a couple of my friends ended up after going through a very painful breakup and heartbreak and heartbreak. One of the reasons why I have always tried my best to stay away from love and relationships is because of breakups and heartbreak and that is because when I love someone, I love them completely, I don't double date and I don't cheat...
I don't believe in jumping from one relationship to another, I prefer just one genuine relationship, one that would last for years and maybe lead to marriage, I know how painful heartbreak is and the harm it can cause, which is why I have always played my honesty card in my relationship...
I have seen someone who has dated more than 3 girls in just one year, why? What happened? why can't it just be one girl? I knew what I wanted in life and that was why I stayed far away from love and relationships in high school, even when my best friends were having multiple girlfriends, I tried not to lose my STEEZE, I maintained 100 percent composure to avoid distraction and unhealthy gossips until I was ready to handle a relationship...
I have always wondered how my friends did it, I mean dating two girls at a time, such an act annoys me but since it's none of my business I don't interfere, one genuine love is enough for me, one genuine love is enough for me...
In summary, I believe in true love and I also believe one girl is enough, and to find the right girl, there's a lot of work to do, instead of jumping from pillar to post, pay close attention, be observant, patient and calm, you never know, the right girl might just be the lady next door...
In conclusion, having just one right partner is better than having multiple wrong partners, open your eyes well and know where you are stepping your feet into, the right person can be anywhere around you...
THANKS FOR READING...