If under any circumstance, your MOTHER, FATHER, or SIBLINGS come first in your scale of priorities above your HUSBAND, WIFE, or CHILDREN...Please, do the world a goddamn favour and don't marry anybody
Y'all treat marriages barely as a social contract with no sense of responsibility, commitment or understanding towards it.
I can't understand how people still have to be told, But the family you create is bigger than the family you come from."
This is something no one is talking about and the earlier we realised and know how to handle this the better for us because this in many cases are destroyed families and marriages all in the name of not balancing things as they should be, and trust me when people say marriage is not for everyone it is true because in the journey of marriage there is hard work, there is understanding and there is what we call endurance, so if you don't have either of the them, it will be very hard to find a balance between your family issues combining with your marriage.
It will divide you apart at the end of the day and you might need up not having anything from either of the sides or both besides....
What do y'all think about this topic?