I always find that when the heart is hurting the most, it's easiest to let yourself accept the love and serenity of music. I'm also a big fan of SOJA and similarly of the same vain; Rebelution... and a little less known and a little more reggae-rap but The Holdup is awesome too. You should check them out too :)
RE: Music Review - SOJA - Nothing Campares 2 Them