I wonder why you feel no one would appreciate you if you're hearing impaired. It doesn't mean anything! It doesn't define you and it won't define your future.
Don't be hard on yourself. Everything happens for a reason, and if your parents got separated, that's them, it doesn't have to be your fault. When me and my ex got separated, I never thought it was about the child.
You are strong, loved, healthy, beautiful and complete. Yes, it could have been better. But it also could've been worse. There are many things that define you other than the unfortunate loss of hearing.
I have tinnitus and I fear that maybe someday I'd lose hearing too. But we all will lose something someday, might as well enjoy the youth we have now.
You have within you the source of unlimited good. Thanks for sharing, choose happiness and much !love
RE: My Silent World: A New Life As a PWD