The fact that you informed the wife about your movement made you relaxed not knowing that such a strange act will erupt from her husband. I am glad he later opened the gate for you that night...good thing is that, the experience taught you life lessons regarding communication
Some people just prefer it when you directly give them that respect but I feel that communicating with one's partner should cover for both but it seems different for this man in the picture.
RE: A Night at the Gate: The Consequences of Assumptions