It is not uncommon to come across folks who are not used to being comforted by anyone. They deal with their pain alone and contend with whatever difficulty life throws on their path, without opening up to those around them. They only show a bright face to make people think that life is fair to them... A facade.
People like these are the ones that this season is all about. These are people that need all the love they can get. They need someone in their life... Someone very special. They need someone they can talk to intimately and bare out their heart.
Love comes in various forms... I know that much. I've been lucky in the forefront of love and it's been a pleasure to build an adorable relationship with a very lovely lady who I respect and adore. She makes me want to talk very intimately and get comforted when I'm contending with life. She does a good job of filling my heart with words of appreciation and encouragement.
Do you know? Being surrounded by people that love you has its way of making mundane things to have a more heightened impact. Mundane things such as hearing encouraging words from someone or people you hold in high regard can serve as an inspiration for you to continue giving your best.
As far as I can tell, being around someone or people you love would easily make even the strongest man or woman want to loosen up and show his or her vulnerability. I've tried that and I just can't get used to it because it's scary for someone like myself that is always used to doing things my way. But, I enjoy that mundane feeling of having someone listen to me and I enjoy opening up my heart. In this same manner, it's also a pleasure to share good times with someone I'm in love with.
As you already know, we are now in the spirit of Valentine's. Do you even know how easy it is to provide love?
It doesn't take much... You just have to be careful and wise enough to give credit where credit is due. Genuinely rejoice with someone you love when he or she is rejoicing and learn to genuinely empathize with someone you love when he or she is going through a rough patch.
From all indications, when two people are in love, what they are fundamentally doing is saying, "I am giving you my heart. Guard it jealously and handle it with care as we take steps towards building this relationship".
We all have different stories to tell about our experiences with love. Sadly, some people have no fond memories of their love life. They either got involved with a partner that was not ready to nurture the relationship or they messed things up and got dumped. As I delved into conscious research about why people's love life ended with heartbreak, it became obvious that there is no shortage of reasons for break-ups between those in love.
This season of love is a season I'm using to look into this and try to decipher the proper solution to heartbreaks between lovers. I know for a fact that once we all get our act together, it will be better for us, our families and our loved ones. I will be delighted to share more of my findings with you all when my thoughts are more articulated.
For now, do your best to have fun and enjoy this season of love with someone (people) you love. Everyone needs love.
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