Being in love is one of the greatest feelings that someone can ever feel. It is more lovely if the one with whom we feel in love can reciprocate our feelings, because that can blossom into a wonderful relationship. But there are times that too much love can make us blind, and it can get ugly. We already know that we are in a toxic relationship, but why do we still not let go and are still holding on if we have already tried understanding it? Why just take it all? Why choose them over yourself? Over your own happiness?
Well, I can understand that it's hard to let go, especially if we have been in that relationship for a very long time now. I understand, too, that unloving someone is hard and not very easy to do. I can also understand that you can't let go because it is not just "you" and "him/her" in that relationship and that you have a cute little thing or a child that you can't take care of alone. Those are really valid reasons, no? And it's hard to make a decision, especially since there's a lot to consider too.
I never experienced being in an abusive relationship, and there is no way that I will ever let that happen to me, but it is easier said than done. Especially for some, sure I can do it, but not all can, especially for those who become too dependent on their partner or when they love too much. I don't want to just say this and that just because that's the easiest thing to "do"—no,, more like an easy thing to "say" because we all know that would be too hard to do.
So, what I want to say is, "Please it is not too late, You Need to Realize Your Worth, So Choose Yourself, Love Yourself, and Choose Your Happiness ." So, what I mean by this is that they still have time and can still think about themselves. I don't want to suggest that they should leave their partner pronto and move on, nope, not that fast, we need just a small step for a start. Starting with thinking, reflect on what to reflect. Time is what they need, it's never too late as long as they realize something before its too late.
I just want them to realize what they need to realize. Someone must open their eyes to see things and think clearly. I know it is a long process, so we should really give them time to realize it. We also need patience because, as I've said, it's not an easy process. In a time like this, those people who're in abusive relationships or in any kind of problematic relationship will need someone who can listen to them. Someone who can understand them. And you know, our advice will never work for them as long as they are still blind.
But by slowly making them realize something, I think that can give me a better result later. Of course, I'm not saying that it will surely work, it's just me taking a chance that it will work. Just trying. I am maybe not an expert when it comes to love, but I think I can also give some nice advice, I think? Consistency is the key and we shouldn't give up on giving advice to those people who really need it. Even if they don't take it to heart now, but soon, it might just happen. And if it did, they will decide on their own to let go, to end it and who knows, and to finally move on.
