Good afternoon lovely participants of the Weekend Engagement and welcome to my submission to this week's lovely topic about the erogenous-zone feels!
As I am quite certain that a lot of you already know what an erogenous zone is, I decided to write about something that I have always been very, very proud of: my breast.
I also want to use this opportunity to talk a little about how a lot of you guys can appreciate and play with your partner's breast - and bring some enjoyment to the table for both of you!
What is the first rule of successful breast play? Don't neglect the areas around your areola. Many folks actually pinpoint the area right above the areola as the most responsive to sexual touch. And the breasts temporarily change in size and sensitivity as arousal increases, so experiment to see how different strokes feel during both the early and later stages of arousal.
Ready to learn more about how to play with boobs for a titillating effect? Without any further ado, here are some of the best Goddess tips for boob-play, in no particular order!
1. Warm Her Up
Making sure your partner's body is ready to receive stimulation is the key to titillating nipple play, especially since the nipples can be a sensitive erogenous zone. Start with a scalp massage to stimulate blood flow throughout the body.
From there, you can move on down, paying attention to the neck, the shoulders, and the collarbone. When you’ve worked your way down to the breasts, you want to make sure you’re minding more than just the boob.
Touch more than just the nipples or breasts. Since the whole skin is an erogenous organ, embracing, stroking, and other pleasurable forms of touch will set you up to really enjoy breast touch even more.
2. Take Your Time
While it might be hard, it’s a good idea to resist the temptation to dive right in and arouse yourself with some delayed gratification.
Hover your warm palms over breasts to tease and build anticipation. Take your time brushing gently and casually up against the sides of the breasts, and the folds beneath them so that they’re aching for you to wrap your full hands right around them.
3. Use Circular Motion
Lightly massage your partner’s breasts and areola with large, circular yet gentle strokes. You can also squeeze the entire breast to heighten anticipation and mix up the tempo.
4. Use Your Palms
Open your hand and caress the nipples with the palms of your hands instead of using fingertips. Create circular and up and down motions. Think: wax on, wax off, but in a more sensual way. For added pleasure and comfort, add a small amount of lube or moisturizer to your hand before you begin.
5. Go For Them From Behind
It can be very sexy to slide your hands around your partner’s breasts from behind. You end up cradling them against you, with their breasts in your hands. From there, you can stimulate the breasts with your fingers or palms. An added bonus: Your face will be available for whispering in their ear and nuzzling their neck.
6. Increase The Tempo..
Rub nipples with your fingers, slowly at first, because nerve endings in areolas make them sensitive to touch. Then gradually increase your speed and pressure as your partner becomes more aroused.
7. ..And Then, Cool It Off
When in doubt, you can't go wrong with temperature play. All you need is something frosty-cool to sip or suck on before you send serious shivers down someone's spine...and elsewhere.
Put ice in your mouth before sucking on your partner’s nipples to send chills throughout their body. Afterward, suck their nipple into your mouth and mimic a vacuum suction to stimulate extra blood flow and increase overall sensitivity.
8. Use Your Tongue
This technique probably works best on someone else, because, well…it might be tough to lick your own breasts if they’re on the smaller side. Twirl your tongue around the areola, avoiding the nipple for a minute before sucking the whole thing into your mouth.
Very lightly take the areola between your teeth and flick your tongue back and forth. You might also consider putting your tongue over the areola and keep it still, then gradually begin to move it.
9. Use Your Breath
Sometimes your breath is the hidden hack to upgrade your orgasm. Lick with a flat, wide tongue to create wet spots, and then open your mouth and breathe warm air over them. Alternate with cool air by pursing your lips.
This is also a subtle form of temperature play, because we exhale warmer air. Licking the breast or nipple first will amp these temperature changes up a little bit and extend their duration while the skin is moist. There will also be the light sensation of the air touching sensitive skin, so this is a nice tease as someone gets warmed up.
10. Don’t Be Afraid Of Some Pain
While no one is saying that you need to torture your partner, a little bit of pain might be a good answer to the question of how to play with boobs. Gently grasp the areolae and pull. To be sure, you only want to apply enough pressure for this to be considered light pinching.
Folks might also enjoy rough-ish play, which includes pinching, twisting, light biting (start with simple teeth scraping the surface of the breast, toward the nipple), light slapping, and grasping and squeezing the whole breast.
And don’t ask me who these folks are - just safe to say that the Goddess is one of them, and I do like it rough myself :)))
And that’s it for today’s post lovely ladies and gentlemen!
I really hope you enjoyed the read!
Have a lovely Saturday and Sunday ahead of you boys and girls. ❤️