The dating pool is totally messed up, many people are feeling miserable in their relationship but they refuse to leave because they are hopeful their partner might change someday but the truth is people don't change, if someone doesn't love you yet still stay with you, it is for their selfish reasons and the moment they see someone better than you that can fill that void, they will eventually leave.
Have you been blinded by love that you do not know if your partner loves you or if they are just using you to wait for the right person? then check out the red flags I am going to list.
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Kissing
Kissing is one of the common love languages which is fun to do when you are attracted to and in love with someone, this is why some people can spend long hours kissing their partner without getting bored of it, they don't care about the saliva and bacteria they are transmitting to one another because they have feelings for one another but kissing can be a disgusting act for someone who is not attracted to you, they would imagine a lot of weird things which will stop them from kissing you and this is why some couples have difficulty kissing one another, it is because one of them feel irritated... When you are in love with someone, you can never be irritated when it comes to kissing them, even if they have bad breath, your work is to find a possible solution as fast as possible.
If you ever notice your partner avoiding kissing you, either a playful kiss or kiss during sex, you should know something is wrong and such a person is not sexually attracted and there is a high chance they could be cheating on you.
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Not Proud of you
May you never date someone who is hiding you, someone who is not proud to let people see you with them, that is a big red flag because a person who loves you will show you off to his/her friends...If the only time your partner wants to see you is when they are horny, you do not need a seer to decode what that means.
Imagine walking together on the street with your partner and they are more focused on their phone and keep some distance from you, aside from it being annoying, it is disrespectful and such a person is just with you for a reason best known to them, you do not want to waste yours with such person.
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Lack of attention
Most people are busy with work but someone who loves you will always find time for you no matter how busy they are, believe this or not if your lover takes more than 10 to 15 minutes to reply to your chat and they are online, you might not be their priority.
If it happens on rare occasions, you can ignore it but if they are always like that leaving your message in pending for minutes before they reply to you while they are chatting with others, it is a sign they are not really into you because someone who loves you won't keep you waiting and they will devote their time in replying your message promptly, if they are busy, they might chat you up and after some few minutes let you know they are busy and they will chat later rather than sending you one or two words and it will take another ten minutes before they reply again.
Many people are fond of making excuses for their partner because they do not want to accept the fact that they do not love them, you will see excuses like she doesn't like kissing, she is busy or her network is bad which is the reason for the late replies and some other excuses you will find to be lame when your eyes eventually open.
Don't tolerate rubbish in the name of a relationship, know when to cut yourself some slacks, and put an end to relationships where you are not being treated right... Trust your instinct because most time it is always right.
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