Job at home sounds bit crazy things but if we look deeply we have to take care of many things staying at home. Apart from the daily chores the one most toughest Job is to handle our kids. Parenting is the best thing happen to someone. But being a parent is not the only thing that one should look for, but also consider the additional responsibility that it brings alongwith in our life.
Today, I get into a very unusual circumdtsnces that put me write this post or rather I am seeking some solution to problems. Today my 7 years old kid just cut her hair by herself. And on asking she lied to me. She said it was the regular hair fall while combing. But actually she was lying which really upset me entire day.
There are two condition that really spoil my day. Firstly she cut her hair even after I stopped her doing the same yesterday. Secondally, after doing it by herself she lied to me like a pro. I think the second instancd is something which really broken me entirely. And I did scolded her. Because as far as I remember I never taught her to lie. But she did it today or may be before as well.
A kid has a innocent mind and as a parent it is our responsibility to mould them either good or bad. No body wants to make them bad and I belive every parents wants their kid to be best. I loves my kid a lot and I think she has realised it and taken me for granted Few days ago one villager told me not to get too close to kids as it will spoil their behaviors towards me. And after today incident I belive the villager is right in his own way.
Scolding is not the good thing to do when it comes to parenting, as it affects the kids mind adversely. But I did it today because of my anger on finding her lie. I am just looking a good option or solution to tackle situation. Where I do not need to go extreme at our kids. And help them realise their mistake easily.
Are their any best alternative avaible.