Hello friends, on the eve of Father's Day, for the first time I will talk about this figure in my life, yes, for the first time, even if it is not a nice experience, but from everything you can get good advice.
padres
Like every human being I had a father but he was never interested in being in my life, he is like that but he is your father, these were always my mother's phrases, like every little girl when I was 5 years old I realized that I had a father who went out of his way for me and allowed me all my tastes and desires because I was the only female daughter but I did not have his last name.
My mother talked to me and explained to me who my father really was, she took me to know him and only now that I am an adult and neither of them is by my side, I understand my mother's phrase, she always told me that father is the one who raises and gives love, but I could never stop seeing my father.
playa
I would sneak out of school to go see him knowing that I was not welcome, I always said to myself that my dad will change someday and I want to be there when that happens, I was a victim of his racism because all his nephews are white and I was the only one with dark skin, but I insisted on imposing my presence on him.
Sometimes when we played among the brothers it was enough to tell me that this is not your father to annoy me, however between the years of games, bad jokes from my brothers and my father's rudeness made me recognize that fathers are important in the life of their children.
My mom only apologized because it was her choice but today I realize that we should love our parents because it is thanks to them that we are in this life.
manos
I do not know what would have become of me without that father I had, I owe him everything I am, as a person and as a father he instilled in me everything good, he contributed all his time and knowledge to make me a good and worthy social being, if I could turn back time today I think I would choose again the two fathers that touched me.
Because that insolent, insolent, racist and ruthless despot father also brought me good things in my life like not wanting a man like that for my daughter, he brought me that it was necessary to always tell my children where he comes from.
That negative father taught me that it doesn't matter the color of someone's skin, what matters are feelings, and that children always love each other.
I am a fulfilled and happy mother and grateful for the men in my life who have been like a father.
Gracias
traductor Deepl
Thank you
translator Deepl