Life is different when it is tasted, felt and enjoyed to a parameter which we are reluctant to live because the comfort's zone of the habit always tells us what to do thats best for personal enjoyment. Yet, most so often I personally feel that we ourselves get busy in doing what we think might bring happiness to us, things that is rewarding ; or not rewarding - that doesnt matter. We keep on hanging out - that we love.
Most of the time, love is what keeps us do what we never imagine to do in broad day light. In fact, sometimes we do silly things just as to make up the insidious vacuity keeping us away from the moment, we cherish to hold. That the drive is so huge, we dont know how we kept moving on through hard times, images of those we hardly can imagine to have - that love made us to Follow through our unique dreams, so astonishing!
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Maybe, you are in those class of people who have had the same feelings throughout the way of their life. In midst of crisis, they found love and they hold onto that quite well,that in midst of rising youth, when everything seemed as to be barren and the emptiness all around, the call of heart that was demanding something pleasurable to happen, thats when the gift came.
Finding someone as first love is unique experience and just a few of the people are lucky enough to keep it alive, just as tender when it was the first day and unto the time of departure, the time to say goodbye to the world everywhere, everyone- family,friends, colleagues,strangers and others on the way. But living in between those times, little happiness, a certain touch of smile, a fellow feeling when the accompaniment was all that needed in life, that we get the lost courage to move on.
You would see that in the times of youth,people seem as to move away from you, of course everyone has their own life, busy schedules, urgencies, and demands. But, sometimes close friends and relatives are those that tend to move away from you. Thats not because they dont love you,its a subtle reminder of the fact that : you arent that important or emotionally connected to them to keep them plugged them with you - it means that you are outward-bound and society has mixed colour to show.
Now, I admit that in life there are lot of hurdles to cross over, and through such case, you would see less number of people with you,less emotional support when you need, less care that holds minds to be solid to cross over crises. Its not about money,or wealth that would keep you moving, sometimes I have often saw rich life, luxurious life to cry so much and breaking down of ties that meant so important to individuals.
People fall apart and most of the times because of relationships break down, easily - badly!
What great gift can you have when you are dealing with the odds of your life? It is quite normal,I know that all of us are busy in managing our own works,looking after family and friends and dear ones, calling them over the phones - knowing whether they are well or not, and the the cycle of life gets going, it continues on and on until we feel that distance has been and high time have passed.
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In those cases, I would say it is important to maintain the meet up,it may be your near loved ones, family members and going out to a outing near the town or suburbs, taking shelter to a meadow, watching the sun to pass away and green fields to sway its color, letting the weather to follow through night and day and slowly the lost rhythm to catch back your soul to the fullest.
Thats the tone of life and what keeps us moving and its the same to you - so,do check the beats of your heart,slowly winning hurdles, making the close friends happy and watching usual complexities to sail away slowly.
I wish you a good luck, cheers! 💖💐