It's okay to be name "hard to deal with" rather
than being someone that can be easily accessible. If you are hard to deal with, it means you have your own principle you have to follow and you will be respected that way. But being the man is good might not always be okay because some people will take it for granted and use you. Don't be too hard and don't be too soft that is the right way to live or else you won't be able to achieve anything for yourself because you will be too good to those who doesn't deserve it.
Don't sacrifice your happiness just to please people just because you want people to say you are a good person. Don't let people define you, live your life the best way you want. Create a boundary between your happiness and People's need and never mix the two together because at the end of the day it's your happiness that matters the most.
Thanks to @flaxz for the initiative of #iamalivechalleng.
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