It's a beautiful Monday to start guarded and with a positive mindset, so here are few words to help you kick start your week!
You may never realize the extent of damage being talked down on by people you cherish has done to you until you start staying away from them.
They take it as joke or as passing comments but truly only you know how much you play those statements in your head.
With their disposal comes a renewed you, a free you, at this point you could start the journey towards positivity and regaining of your real self.
However, first thing first, stay away from people that make you feel less of yourself!
I know creating an internal mechanism to wedge off the impact of whatever that is said to you is another helpful way but I will also recommend a stand up straight talk where neccesary. I don't know about you but I feel so good whenever I feed you back your bad words even before you finish them, you don't see me as that fiesty right?
Well, wait till the day you try me.
When you set them straight, you won't go home playing their words in your head, you would rather shine your 32 while reminiscing on how you gave it back to them. Try it and thank me later☺️.
Enough of taking 'em all in🙅♀️.
It's killing you, you just are yet to realize it. It took me, a reasonably outspoken everywhere girl years to shake off, I am still coming with my full regalia, you ain't seen nothing yet.
It marvelled even me that I found it hard to do my favorite thing "smile", it marvelled me that I had to be fidgety even when I am sure of what I know, thank God I knew how to write, if not, I wonder how I would have navigated my way through!
Like geez...🤦♀️
Stop allowing certain things, especially if you have similar temperament as myself, like I can sense any little act of rejection, it may not be the speaker's intent but please can you just keep your thoughts to yourself?
It's funny how some words don't get directed to me, yet I feel bad for who it is said to and I simply earmark the offender, how much more when it's me. Though, I have grown to rise above certain things yet to be candid I still take precaution.
It wasn't an easy one but I won, now I want to be heard and seen again 💃💃
So dear friend reading my write up, don't allow what will hurt or bring down your morale, you may find it difficult growing out of it, so block it at the initial stage.
Thanks for engaging 🙏