Happy new week friends, this week is going to bring much blessings to us all. All over my city yesterday people fixed their eyes on the television to support our dear country as we played finals yesterday. Something funny happened in my house too, immediately I heard A Goal from a distance I joined to shout and updated my Whatsapp status , I was not even watching or interested to watch but that friendly atmosphere took over me lol. Well we lost the match which I heard this morning from my husband.
Sports is one thing that breeds friendship, even when you don't know your team mate for the first time you just have to flow so the game will go fine. Also, even if you have a rival as a team mate, rivery dies an automatic death in the field so you can achieve a single goal which is to bring the cup home.
Imagine those that head to the viewing center to watch the match talking with one voice as if they have known themselves for long because of a single motive, that's what the spirit of sportsmanship can do.
The way we relate with people cannot be separated from our personality, some persons are so easy going while some others prefers to have a critical study of a person before they can come out to relate.
When it comes to making new friends, I can say that I can easily flow with people and can easily withdraw. When I meet someone for the first time I try my best to be lovable but will withdraw immediately if my love is not appreciated instead of trying to force myself into the person. Something happened few weeks back which I will like to share with you. I was invited for a leadership training getting to the venue there was a need for an usher, so I was called upon by the organizer to help. You know as an usher you try to be friendly even if you don't know how to be, I came across a woman as we kept talking and I directed her to where to sit, she objected and gave some reasons which is fine...trying to make her comfortable, she just reacted in a very bad manner to me and walked out immediately I just piped low so as not to create distraction.
Growing up, I had more male friends to female friends, it came to a point my mother told me she is looking forward to seeing my female friends. One of the days I invited her to my house and my mother was happy to see her. That friendship didn't last because distance was a barrier. As time progressed everyone found his lane and went so I don't have friends as such now. There are many criteria I consider before calling someone a friend. I don't like to associate with people who are selfish, so if I notice that you are close to be but you are self-centered I will just reduce my conversation. Also, before I can boldly say someone is my friend I will make sure that our views are not too apart from each other
Good friends are a good consolation and they always seek for ones good and growth which is so commendable. To this I prefer to have very few friends so I will not have to go into unnecessary stress.
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