Do Movies and Novels cause of couple fights?
Marriage is a beautiful relationship and we expect a lot from our partner. Romantic movies and novels raise the bar of expectations between partners.
But is this a correct statement or it's just an overrated thing? We do understand a couple wanna go to an expensive place for a honeymoon or simply wanna celebrate marriage like a certain actor or a novel character.
Once the first baby is born they might wanna buy shoes even before the baby is not born. Baby practically doesn't need shoes to wear but still, we buy them. Are hype about expensive marriage, clothing, and an expensive honeymoon really because of movies and novels? I would highly disagree on this one. Even if we expand the topic into all ways of communication and social media even then I disagree. It all looks sweet and romantic at the start and it's natural for a couple to have higher expectations from relation. If you compare it to your first time investing you were hyped that you are going to be rich until you lose money. First day of school is also the same as at the start most of us wanna become doctors, engineers, etc.
In any new thing/event that happened in our lives, it's natural to act differently. The same can be said about a new couple. Once you spend time with your partner, you will have an idea of the budget and you will lower your expectation or should we say realistic expectations. Because of human's habit of blaming we can't always blame TikTok, movies, novels, and other things. Just put your efforts into understanding your partner and your expectations will be realistic.
Conclusion:
I hope you learned from this blog. While media plays a role in influencing our lives, a relationship of marriage is stronger and we do understand the needs, requirements, and budget of our partner. We just have to spend time with our partner! If you read this far say thank you to your partner for everything they do for you. It would be a small memory or a big event but you always have some good memories with them. Appreciate little things in life and enjoy your life, enjoy it while it lasts.