I understand you. I think you must find a complement in your partner, not just sacrifice like Elton John 😅 talking more seriously, I think talking is the main tool to keep the relationship health, otherwise you may end find it frustrating with time. Generally what I find attractive on my partner is the admiration she generates on me, my partner has to complement me in some way, and let me be while I let her be.
RE: [EN/PT-BR] Love and Sacrifice.