Hello friends. Do make yourself comfortable as we journey together in this pleasant edition of week 133
This is the hardest job I have ever seen in my life and sometimes you don't get any good response or appreciation at the end of your labor. While I was growing up I discovered that there are so many things that my mother will always insist I don't do and there were so many things she also insist I do. Though at that time I don't know much, but one thing I know for sure is that I hated everything my mother stood for. I don't like it when she instructs and i don't like it when she is not instructing. I don't really know why it is like that, but most parents get very upset yo see that their labor in the lives pf their children is in vaiito some extent.
Well lets delve into the topic for the day. Talking about who's fault it is when a child goes bad or when a child began to behave the negative way. I just have a few things yo say concerning it.
First of all, I want yo say that no matter who's fault it is that a child is bad or has learned some negative behavior. It doesn't change the fact that the child will still face the consequences of his or her actions. If the child does anything wrong against the law, he will dance to the law because he is at fault. The parents may be responsible or it might be his fault, but he will still face the law.
I will look at it from two perspectives: First of all, the parents have alot of responsibilities when it comes to raising a child yo be responsible. The child copy alot of things from the parents. Sometimes we parents do alot of things and don't think that our children are watching and also picking up what they see us doing. Parents do lie before their children and don't want their children to lie. It doesn't work that way. It is what we plant that we will reap in the future. Some families parents do fight even before their children. After doing all of these before the kids we should expect them to reproduce it in the society. When this begin to happen we blame tye children as deny teaching them how to do bad things in the society. We don't need to tell them verbally to do those things, but as long as we do those things before them, they will surely reproduce it with many fruits to go it.
The second thing is that he children too have their own parts to play. Some children did not learn evil behavior from their parents. After been taught the good way of life from their parents, they go out to learn evil from their friends. Some of them get bad. Their friends teach them what is different from what they have been taught at home and they forget about all that they have been taught at home. This is another reason why we see a different thing from what we give them at home.
In summary, both the parents and the children have their own blame no matter what that is the way I see it. Parents have 80% blame to go it, while the children have the rest of the 20% blame also. So it then means that parents have lots of work to do as long as raising children that will make them happy in the future it concerned.
This post was inspired by the hive learners community contest for week 133, edition 1.
