This was just beautiful to read as it aligns with my code too. I will never reciprocate evil or bad no matter what. I come from a home of love and that’s all I can give in all situations. It really can be hard but at that moment it’s about my own peace of mind because as you said what exactly will she gain by ruining the walls? If she has conscience, I don’t think what she did will sit well with her.
RE: The No-Harm Rule