This morning I was discuss about this issue with one of my roommate and she was agreeing my words. Actually, I was telling her that recently I've disconnected with people who borrow money from anyone around them which is uncomfortable for those people who doesn’t much appreciate borrowing money. Honestly I'm one of them.
There was a next door neighbour who often borrowing things from me and I gave too but when things come to money I'm really not someone who appreciate it. Its hard to say NO sometimes and I gave too but luckily I'm no longer connected with that woman. But I saw her borrowing money from anyone around her. She seems has no self respect or some other mental problem I'm not sure.
Wherever, there are several reasons behind my disliking borrowing, specially the money. First of all, I can ask for give back my things I've given others so I may give money to poor or beggars that I never want back. Asking for my own thing from others really make me feel bad. I love to earn money and do not like borrowing for myself.
Since my childhood days my parents always gave me all those things I want or need and I never ask for anything to them even I had right to ask for anything to them. My self respect never allow me to ask for money or things from others (except Almighty Allah). I don't like people who borrow things and introduce themselves like a parasite.
So I prefer ignoring them as much I can. My roommate was saying that her friends often borrow money from her and timely return to her and she is okay with that though she also don't like to remind the person who borrow and forget. This is another reason that some people borrow things and act like they forget it.
Thankfully I didn’t experience such disgusting situation. I try to ignore people my saying that my money is available in my bank and I don't keep much cash in my pocket and its not a lie, I keep my balance in my bank or mobile wallet so I'm unable to give such people who is needy by nature.
Sorry to say! These kind of people will be always ignored by me. And they doesn’t deserve more than this. If you are needy earn it or brought it but don't borrow specially when you going to forget to return. That's my slogan always.
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