The Danger of being ungrateful

Dealing with ungrateful people can be a challenging and emotionally draining experience. Thus; it is important to recognize ungrateful behavior, practice gratitude, and learn how to effectively deal with an ungrateful person.

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An unappreciative attitude of some people shouldn't deter me from doing good always to people around me and without. Doing good has always been a part of my daily life by God's grace, though it hurts sometimes when the outcome is the reverse. But that didn't stop me from doing good.

I believe what is good is worth doing for others even if they fail to appreciate it, also the good we do to others is liken to be a seed planted, which grows and bears fruit in due season. even when we are not appreciated by the person. When we know that what we are doing is good, it should be done with excitement, although appreciation is one thing that boosts and encourages one to do more, but failure to be appreciated brings discouragement, but we need to encourage ourselves and move forward to the next thing because someday we will be appreciated elsewhere.

Unappreciative attitude always hurts so much, when dealing with an ungrateful person, it's imperative to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, attempt communicating openly and honestly about the impact of that behavior, and if need be boundaries should be set to protect ourselves from being hurt the more.
Coping with an unappreciative attitude can be challenging, in all we do our mental sanity is paramount and trying to cope with an unappreciative attitude is one thing that brings hurt emotionally no matter how we try to pretend or hide it, it will show off, so it's in our place to protect our emotional and mental energy, by guiding our heart against any form of negativity as a result of that. so I believe that we can aid the emotional challenges by focusing on our own well-being and prioritize activities that bring us joy, also surrounding ourselves with positive and supportive people, thus remembering that their attitude is not a reflection of our worth.

If led, we can also express our feelings and needs in a calm and assertive manner, letting go of need for validating, other people's opinion or expression shouldn't be a determining factor for our self-worth, rather trying to understand their perspective and beliefs as far as appreciating others is concern.

I have different experiences as far as dealing with unappreciative attitude, most times it hurts because it comes from people i least expected, and that hurts even more. But despite that, i kept doing good, and i can boldly say that I'm happy doing it.

If they fail to appreciate us, we ought to show appreciation for ourselves, celebrate our efforts and accomplishments. If need be, we ought to step away from the situation to maintain our emotional well-being.
Our reaction to unthankful attitudes can help us maintain our emotional balance and improve relationships if properly managed.

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