Hello Guys,
Through out our lives one of the things that constantly keeps us from giving efforts into certain stuff we would have rather given efforts into. Mostly we do encounter a bombardment of negativity from all around when we do happen to fail in certain field and are unable to cope up with that situation. People do pass comments and repeatedly mention they told you not to attempt what you did as well as point out stuff which are mainly your faults. Not only people, it is you yourself too when you feel deep inside that you aren't the right one and you did something which is a mistake and you could've avoided it or atleast made it something because of which you should'nt had to fail.
After this initial stage we do have the sensation we know as being the phase of REGRET. In this stage we keep on regretting upon the already happened thing and keep on blaming our ownself and also focus on the comments of other people and end up absorbing all the negativity.
Some people also are of the thought that we must never regret and accept whatever we end up achieving. Well to be frank that is 100% correct from a particular stand point.
Basically it means that if you're regretting it states you are a good human being for sure. To explain that consider the examples for any hardcore criminals, they don't feel any kind of regret after committing the biggest of crimes. There are a numerous such things which we can't even imagine of but there are people at the same time who do them on regular basis.
Now from this standpoint, having regrets is a good thing. It is also a phase in life when acceptance prevails and you are still having the mindset which allows you to think that you could've done it differently.
Regrets are one the complex feeling we do encounter in our life though it itself is a mixed feeling and does have mixed outputs as a result based on how they are treated and on what level they form.
The best bet what I feel is that we should not shame on having regrets but instead of just sobbing we should analyze where we went wrong and note that particular point and avoid doing the same fault again. All in all, take regrets a lesson and a learning opportunity.
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We must be cautious all the time and do take each and every step in such a way that we would have any scope to regret for in the future which is quite hard to achieve though it can be made possible with precise planning and appropriate efforts and the effective places.
To sum up, it can't be completely said that one should have regrets in life or not but one thing that is certain in each and every condition is you must keep on learning throughout your life and try not to commit the same mistake again once you encounter it.
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