This is the first time that I'm going to post in this community.It's a pleasure to share to share with you my thoughts about certain things.
This week I've had a conversation with a friend who is close to my heart. This person was older than me, but she trusted me with her personal struggles and issues which she kept from others.And as we had our conversation, I find her having a heavy heart with a certain person which she bear for a long period of time.Her mouth speaks positively that it's already a past happening in her, but, her eyes speaks clearly that she still have anger in her heart.She's having a teary eyes while recalling her past experiences.
Forgiveness really takes time to happen, even if we say it, but deep inside our heart,it's not easy.Only by God's grace that we can truly gave it to someone. But once we allow our human feelings to rule over us, it will take years or more before forgiveness happens.
I can still sense the pain of my friend, as we have our conversation. She often hide her feelings, because she wants to move on and I hope she will.
A good relationship is like a treasure too,we cannot be productive in relating with people when there is a gap.It was like a scar, that once we scratched it again, it will still be painful.
Wherever we are, it's favorable to always be careful with our words, actions, and reactions to avoid causing pain without friends,family or anyone around.
It's painful when a person refused to forgive, but that's the reality, we cannot dictate others feelings, forgiveness will just come when the time is right.It depends on how did our heart accept others mistakes, and released themselves from the bondage of being unable to forgive.
Thank you all, ti'll next time.