Having the right people in your life changes a lot of things, you find renewed purpose and a drive to just be a better you. Not until you are surrounded by the right people, you keep feeling worthless and useless. Everything just seem to be at a halt no matter how much you think you are moving fast. I have those days and recently it’s been reducing and I think I might have found some people that truly care about me and people that I care about and I wish to always see them happy no matter what.
I believe in love, true love, yes it does exists and even though I’m not sure if I have experienced it, I know I have shown it and I’m still showing it. Not so perfect yet but it will be someday. To some people, love is a strong feeling of affection towards someone or something but to me, I believe love is an action that anyone does at every given point in time to save a situation or something without any form of bias.
I have seen so many people become biased because of those they say they love. They always support them no matter what, whether right or wrong but for me that is no love at all. For someone you say you love, you should always be the first to praise them when they do something right and when they are wrong, you should also be the first to spot it and tell them about in a compassionate manner. When you love someone, you should always make sure to guild them to do the right thing and not be blinded because you love them.
I have been in several situations when those I love see me as an enemy because I try to correct them for what they’ve done wrong. To them, because I love them, it means I should support them in everything but I’m so sorry that’s not how it works for me, if it was so, then I’m only telling a lie when I say I love you. It takes so much courage to tell a loved one he or she is wrong especially when to them, you should always take their sides no matter what.
Personally, I always like choosing the side that is right because I hate it when someone lies against me so I don’t want to ever do that to someone else. Even when it might be a joke, I always find myself leaning towards the side of truth because it might turn out to be a serious joke. If I don’t care about you, I might close my eyes to your wrongdoings, in fact that is one way for you to know I don’t care about you.
When I love someone, I always want to know how they are doing and what they are doing at every point in time. I always want to know why they are happy or sad. I want to know what they love and why they love what they love and so on. When I love someone I feel comfortable taking about anything with them and I always feel sad when they don’t want to share things with me. Once I love someone, I trust them, I always try to take whatever they tell me as truth because I won’t want to lie to them too but of course, I try to always hear from both sides to still confirm so I don’t support anyone blindly.
For me it is easy to love someone but it’s always hard to make someone love you. I have always believed that because of the heart I have towards people, loving people has become easier so what I really need is someone who loves me. You may disagree with me but I am hardly biased when it comes to the love I have for people, as long as the person is willing to be loved. I want and need to be loved so the least I think I could do was to first show that love and keep hoping love will find me too.
I know you might think differently so please don’t hesitate to drop your thoughts at the comment section let’s discuss, hehe. It’s always a pleasure having you stop by ❤️.