i feel love is more about

1)asking yourself what can i give rather than what will i receive?
2)Giving someone an enormous freedom rather than keeping them in your bondages.
3)Giving someone a company rather taking them as a way for your insecurity.
4)Creating altogether a progressive environment rather then dragging them in your agnoy.

1. treating the person as you yourself rather than as your belonging.
2. giving a sense of individuality rather than as an utility.