I am someone who is careful of what I do, in my daily routine, I do not just do something for doing sake, or in the sense that others people are doing it, i must take my time to look into it, if that I am about to do, is something I really like, because, heartbreak can take form in many ways, and a good example is when we want to copy from what people are doing.
I have witnessed it before, when someone close his office and joined his friends in a trip to an event, just because he was told that, it will be a very exciting event, and he could not understand that, the people going to the event have planned for it a long time ago, and also, they have known that it is on the right time and would not affect their hustle.
Meanwhile, he never took any of those things into consideration, he was just going for going sake, maybe, for the excitement, and because it was an event that most of the people he knows would be attending.
So, that makes him to close his office and go for the event, but within those times he was not in the office, a lot of people look for his services and he was not around to render it, he missed those chances of making money, which will make him to be able to pay for his rent when it is due, as his landlord would not hear any excuses from him than needing him to pay for his rent.
Therefore, he spent up to a month in the event and he came back, people who used to work with him, after checking him for some days and he was not still in his office, divert to another person who do the same kind of work, although some people still needs his service's when he was back, yet within those times, the people that went to him were not much.
Whereas, the people he went to the event with, were working in a public sector, their absence was with due understanding, and people replace them within those day's, they were off, since it was on their leave ground, so they had no issues at all, even while staying away from the office, their salary were not affected a bit.
Then the year runs out and he was to pay for his rents, as a business owner, he was paying for his house rent and as well as his shop rent, but this time, it was tight for him, because the times he should have used to hustle, he was going to places and enjoying leave while he was a sole proprietorship with no servants.
The situation make him to go borrowing, inorder to start over, right now, he is working, paying for the loan he collected, and also savings for his annual rents.
It is not good to used our time in things that do not matters to us, there is a time for everything, do not joined others because they are doing it, sit back and think about it, "is what I am doing the right thing to do ?
Do not wait untill the challenges become three before you wake up, while we have two challenges, continue to think of a way to have one.