I have been a master of inspiration because I have pass through a lot as well, I have also learnt a lot from the life's of others, sometimes, you hear people said that, "crayfish bend not because it wanted to do so, but he got that shape due to the situation he finds himself in.
The thing I always hold still is that, no matter what we experienced, laughter's would not seized to come but, the deal is, most people do not believe in it, once they go through one hard situation or the other, they would start loosing hope, behaving anyhow and ready to do anything, as far as they are going to get theirself satisfied.
There was a time I was traveling to Abia state, I sitted next to a man who keep a playful lifestyle, and we talked a lot on the way to our destinated address, while we were going on the road, we saw a family man who carried two daughters and also his wife on a motorcycle.
Therefore, the man go on to let me know how he has been a single Dad when his wife left him, just for no reason, he then began to be calling her and she ignored to answer at any time.
After a month of her not coming back home, he took his children's to stay with his sister in the village, people were advising him to get married to another woman but he didn't see any need then, because when he thinks about it, he hardly understand the reason why his wife should left him and also her childrens.
He said at some point, she talks to him and a day came that she told him, he is not the kind of man for her, because he does not have money, she can't continue living in a rented apartment with him in the city, beside she feels nothing for him anymore, and she has found someone she truly loves.
He said at this point, he made up his mind, because love is not by force, he got married again and, according to him, his work does not warrant him to be at home all the times, so when he gave some money to the new wife, coming back home, she wouldn't used all the money and things in the house would still be surplus.
When he then went to the shop she is managing, the goods in the shop would be intact and she is doing the business very well, he used to think how she has been able to managed, because unlike his first wife, she would used the money he gave her, and also, be calling him to sent money.
But his new wife, any money he add to her business would show a difference.
He has brought his children's back from the village to stay with his new wife and they has been living happily as a family, the situation is up to ten years and right now, he is living in the house he built in the city.
The deal is, something might changed in our life and we do not know that it is for the best to surface.