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Hello Hivers , today is a special day for me ; I see every day of the week that is same with the month significant , as today is 9/9/2020 isn't this cool ? My today will be great !
It's nice writing to you once again on one of my area of concentration.
Today I will be talking about considerable attributes that can lead to success in a relationship. I will be writing on four only ;
CHARACTER :
Beauty attracts men but character keeps them. Like the saying goes beauty is skin deep ; what makes you beautiful resides inside of you.
Your physical appearance can just steal a man's attention for a while , it can't bring them to stay . You can be the most beautiful woman in the world but once you lack a good character you miss it all.
Here in my country Nigeria before one gives his daughter's hand in marriage to any man he/she goes to the birth place of the husband to be , to get useful information about the man's background if his family has any cases attached to them in order to know who they are actually giving their daughter's hand in marriage to (vice versa ).
INTELLIGENCE :
Elegance catches man's attention but intelligence convinces them ; your outward appearance does not rely matter , do not live to impress people instead let them be impress by what you can offer . There are many men and women that live fake life , why not live your life the way you are and let them love you for who you truly are ?
I Know human make a lot of excuses to cover up their actions I've you ever had a second thought before you take an action , try seating yourself in front of the mirror and ask yourself these five words WHAT DO I REALLY WANT ? Then work towards it by making your priority right .
CONSTRUCTIVE SILENCE :
Nagging irritates men but constructive silence weakens them ; don't prove me wrong but I don't actually mean this in maltreatment , in that , you have to speak up but not while he is talking course any unreasonable action you take will only make matter move from frying pan to fire (worst) let him talk then look for a time , try first making him happy then you can table the matter then and only then can you get him . This action is what I call constructive silence..
MATURITY :
A proverb states that "boys will be boys" The ‘boy’ in every man pumps out occasionally, the ability to handle this is a woman’s truest maturity.
Men have secret struggles and silent pains, if you should ever find them out, you have exhibited the greatest maturity and as a result of this you can earn a man's respect and he will always consider you as the yard stick for all his success in life .
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Also , Learn to mold the moods of your man and woman. You will always be a part of each other and will naturally stand together to build each other's future . Don't forget it's your maturity .
Nevertheless , WOMEN, BUILD your HOME through WISDOM.
In the long-run ......
Your ‘WORDS’ matters more to a man than your ‘LOOK’.
So..........INVEST the right WORD.💓 you
Thanks for going through my post , I hope you have something to hold on to .
For more of my inspirational writing you can check this other post out 👇