Introduction from my book "Love Beyond Jealousy"

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In recent years, there has been a significant shift in the way relationships are viewed and experienced.

The traditional notion of monogamy, once considered the cornerstone of romantic partnerships, is increasingly being questioned. As society evolves, so do our understandings of love, intimacy, and connection.

This evolution suggests that we may be moving from the 'teenage years' of human relationship development, characterised by strict rules and a one-size-fits-all approach, to a more mature phase of 'full human adulthood'.

In this new era, the emphasis is shifting to values of trust, empathy and open, loving communication. These principles are becoming the bedrock of modern relationships, replacing the fear-based rigid structures of the past.

The shift reflects the overall trend towards openness and honesty, where individuals are encouraged to express their true selves and longings without fear of judgement.

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The idea that monogamous relationships may be outdated is not meant to undermine their value or suitability for many. Rather, it's an invitation to acknowledge that we can find many ways to experience love and commitment.

Relationships, like individuals, are unique and should be tailored to the needs and desires of those involved. By embracing this diversity, we open ourselves up to a richer experience of human connection.

This research explores the complex emotion of jealousy, a feeling that has traditionally been seen as a challenging aspect of any relationship.

However, when understood and managed in a healthy way, jealousy can be a tool for growth and deeper understanding in any relationship. By examining the different facets of jealousy and how it manifests, we learn to navigate these feelings more effectively, leading to healthier and more fulfilling relationship networks.

The concept of non-monogamy is not a one-size-fits-all solution, but rather a spectrum of possibilities, each with its own unique dynamics and challenges. These alternative structures offer opportunities for growth, self-discovery and deep emotional connections that may be less accessible in traditional monogamous arrangements.

This manuscript does not advocate one type of relationship over another. Instead, it aims to shed light on the evolving landscape of loving human bonds. By understanding the different forms, the emotional intricacies involved, and the skills needed to navigate them successfully, we empower ourselves to make choices that are authentic and fulfilling.

It's a journey towards deeper, more loving and meaningful connections that reflect the complexity and beauty of the human experience.

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What is a Moon Love Relationship?

Moon Love refers to a special type of relationship characterized by unconditional love and deep connection. Couples come together to celebrate a sacred and intimate love ceremony once per lunar cycle. They establish personal permissions or liberties that reflect their agreement, allowing for exploration within set boundaries. Moon Love thrives on open, honest, and loving communi­cation, nurturing trust, respecting each other's needs and longings, and deepening the connection between two souls.

(See last chapter for more details and other types of relationships.)

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