Love is sweet
Love is pure
Love is life
Love make sacrifices
Love doesn't discriminate
Love doesn't get angry
Love doesn't keep secrets.
All this will happen when you find the right person to love and be loved back in return because it's not everyone capable of loving back the way you love them.
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Meanwhile, it is not until you are in a relationship with someone before you can love them, it is love that made us live together as neighbors, it is love that made us stay in the same place as a country.
So let's spread love and not hatred because without love the whole world would have been in chaos, let us love one another simply the way God wants us to.
Now let's talk about relationships, without love Relationships can't exist
Without sacrifices, relationships can't work and that is why we see lots of relationships falling apart even before starting it.
I have a friend who always talks about how she can't help her boyfriend with money, she said and I quote "I can never use my money to help any guy including my boyfriend, because I made it all by myself so I can't give a man my hard-earned money,".
I asked, "What about your husband because one day you will get married to your boyfriend, and he will become your husband,".
She replied, "Any man at all doesn't deserve my money,".
Sometimes I wonder why people think that way because a relationship is all about love, help, care, and sacrifice. So why would someone say I can't help my partner because he or she doesn't deserve it and yet you are in a relationship with him.
So I asked her again because I love doing my findings well about someone before concluding who they are, "So why are you dating him if you can't help him or care for him?".
She replied, "I have heard a lot about some guys who made ladies fall in love with them then collect their money, and run away so to avoid that I have to play my game well,".
Meanwhile, a relationship is not all about the game it's about being there for eachother, I love helping my man because I know how much we love eachother and how much we care for eachother, I cherish my relationship so much to the extent that I can give anything to care for my man.
Some months later, my friend and her boyfriend broke up because she refused to help the guy when he had problems with his business, I got a call from him and I got there and met the two of them arguing about it.
He said and I quote, "Is this how you girls are, holding back to help your guy?".
Well, I am not like that but, I couldn't say anything other than to beg him because I don't want to say bad things about my friend and I can't start defending myself there.
So I asked what happened, "What is going on with you two".
He replied, "When my business was doing well, I cared for her, cherished her, and did everything in my power to help her business, and now I needed her help to be there for me she kept holding back,".
I couldn't say that I warned her when he walked out of the door but then I reminded her that relationship is about truth, trust, love, care, and sacrifice. If all that is lost there is nothing left in the relationship.
She cried and I petted her because that was all I could do, if I don't do all that in my relationship too I would definitely end up like her, or if my partner was not loving, caring, and helping, I might probably walk out of the relationship as well.
We are supposed to be there for eachother and that is what a relationship is all about and not for selfish interest at all.
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