Each human being is part of an immense place called universe, we belong to a limited part of time and space. Separate your thoughts and feelings from the rest of the people, and this way you will realize your illusions and what you long for. Disillusionment and disappointment are like a prison for us, it limits our personal desires and we must be as far as possible from those feelings. You should not get carried away by people who seek to pity you, you are capable of being unique within a group.!