Hello steemit ! Today i am going to discuss really important thing ,this is especially for parents. Parents of this time are really scared and really want to attribute those qualities which they do not have.This phenomenon is basically psychology and is called projection. The child sometimes show some features characteristic of one of the parents, and parents begin to project on him all other traits of character , which, in their opinion, he should have! They thought his life must be according to them because they have just more life experience but they do not think that world has changed with time.
So a child do not found room for his own decisions and try to become what his parents want to see in him and . We all know that God which has created us does not want us to be alike each other in any way .Look around and find a single person having same look and traits. Our fingerprints,hairs,colour,even everything is so different ,then why we are trying to make our child similar to someone but this is not really the point. The point is why we are not letting them to take their decisions ? which thing is making us so afraid of things which have not yet happened.
A Terrible Investment:
In childhood, we pay attention fully because this is the best time for them to grow good qualities. Not letting them to do what they want to.We just make plan for their future and trust me that future is your old life, our future just start after 45 to 50 years and last for about 10 years. So basically we are trying to utilize about 45 years just to make our future perfect. Isn't look amazing, i mean we just spend our best time of age just to make our some last time comfortable. In my view this is really a terrible investment .
Make Your Own Ways :
We all know ourselves and we really do. We must know how this world work and where we are going and where we want to go ? We are really making our child to think they are not capable of thinking and taking good decisions. So we make decisions for them. We just try to make them what wewant to become in our life and we fail to do that. We put our failure to our child and name it making a good decision for you life.Let them free and let the what they want to be.It's not really about money. They will regret you if they fail. Most of us on their failure freak out. Hold on a second and think who had made all the decisions.
in making their own ways to their future. This is how its going to be a better world.
Let them to fly and make their life according to their will and let your life as you like to be in your life.
