THE PARAMOUNT DESIRE AND EXPECTATIONS OF EVERY NEWLY MARRIED COUPLES IS TO HAVE GOOD KIDS SOMEDAY.
BUT SOMETIMES WE END UP WITH DEFIANT ONES
Children are considered blessing and joy to their parents, raising up kids are the most sensitive periods in our lives because our society is variably the end product of those children we raised in our different homes.
Everyone who has to do with Children or youth should give proper attention to this post, I tried to make it straightforward as to ways in which order can be maintained, responsibility developed, and good moral behavior built.
This is an urgency needed in homes which is a statement that has been long needed though we oftentimes get it confused.
Is love enough, how do we integrate discipline with love to achieve a desired child product?
Love is not enough in raising children, discipline is long misinterpreted as punishment but that's not true, discipline is not merely punishment, in fact, good and promising generation can never be produced in a world where children have good and justified reasons not to respect their parents.
EDUCATIONAL EMPOWERMENT
Successful education definitely should be hinged on the platform of psychological laws of learning which is so often disregarded.
Believe it or not; children learn to follow patterns and formulas that goes to their best interest which probably produces satisfactory results for them, here comes the use of powerful tool called REINFORCEMENT which can be applied by parents and children against each other, for example; if a parent noticed that his or her child like reading his/her books 📚 with candy 🍭 on the table; the parents can use that reinforcement to get the child reading his/her books always, the same applies to children; if a child noticed that daddy often gives up by his/her defiance character or by screaming, he utilizes that to win his/her way against the father, so both parents and children are in a war of win win.
Good and proper discipline is always a product of intelligent application of this principle of reinforcement but adequate measures must be taking so that we don't reinforce characters we may regret in the future, many parents do reinforce some behaviors which actually was what they had in mind to stop their child from.
Individual differences in natural endowment, social and emotional maturity must be paramount in academic related matters.
**The danger in parents expecting too much from their young ones too soon **
Mental abuse is becoming a norm nowadays, parents want their little ones to become the best amongst their peers, and they always overwork these kids beyond their mental capacities at a given age, these are the challenges facing parenting in our world today.
These are all we will be discussing about in good parenting techniques.
Thanks for reading as we're just starting in this line of thoughts on how these principles can be applied in homes and schools in creating quality moral behaviors in our children.
I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IN YOUR HOMES.
I remain your humble friend Petlove @korghawk.
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